Do you prefer the woman-on-top position? These men and women have confessed some pretty intimate details. Take a look at what is the urban Indian's attitude towards dating, relationships and sex.
The lady's man
Ronny Sharma (Name changed to protect identity), 23, an account manager with a public relations firm in Mumbai, loves to please his woman in bed.
The first time I had sex with a girl was when I was 14. We were both newbies without a clue and I was on top of her. But as we grew more comfortable, we discovered that the woman-on-top position was a lot more pleasurable for her and me. When she got into the 'power' position, it felt so right!
Route to discovery
I think that the perfect position needs to be discovered; I'm not one to follow expert tips. Personally, I prefer the girl being on top of me, because I've noticed that girls enjoy that more. And I'm all for keeping my woman happy. I think women feel safer and more in control. Personally, I also like a woman who knows what she wants in bed. But I'm not averse to taking the lead if the situation calls for it.
Operation turn-me-on
Shruti Singh (Name changed to protect identity), 34, an advertising professional who has been in a live-in relationship for the past six years, likes constant change in her sex life.
Some people like to be on top, some like their partner on top, I like spooning (when two people lie on their sides, both facing the same direction, fitting together like spoons)! It's a position I discovered a few years ago. I didn't even know it was called spooning at the time.
For me and my partner, it was more of an after sex position at first. But then we discovered doing it in that position felt fabulous.
Snuggle up
I like to feel my partner against me. It makes me very conscious of his entire body. Besides, women love a lot more cuddling and caressing, I love it when my partner touches my breasts and tummy sensuously.
Spooning is an immediate turn on for the both of us. I also think it doesn't put any added pressure on either person and leaves more scope for the couple to get adventurous. It could really heat things up!
A couple with a mission!
Aparna Nair (Name changed to protect identity), 23, a professional belly dancer, engaged to be married soon, likes her man to be in control.
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My preference: Man-on-top (the missionary position), any day! Here's why. My fiance and I had sex for the first time, recently. We were both virgins, and wanted to experience it with each other so bad!
Soon after, it was just a matter of time before we started "experimenting", which we did! During this time, we tried the woman-on-top position, but somehow I found it difficult for him to penetrate me in this way!
Made for each other
I know men find the woman-on-top position sexy and all that, but somehow my guy is also of the opinion that the man-on-top position is most pleasurable. It helps him take the lead, which I love. And I find that it is most comfortable for him, which is great for me as well.
Yes, we both fell in love with the man on top! (smiles)
It's all about control
Vikram Sandhu (Name changed to protect identity), 29, a senior officer in the hospitality industry claims to know how to give a girl a good time in bed.
Well, honestly, I think I prefer my girl on top and I have a feeling that's how most women like it. I think it gives them a sense of power and drive while they are riding the guy. On the other hand, for the guy, you are literally moving her with your hands around her lower waistline. So, there's a sense of control that both enjoy.
The comfort factor
Also, when a guy is on top, you are not very sure if the girl is comfortable and that thought could possibly ruin the mood. When she is on top, you know for a fact that she is comfortable because you can practically judge that from the moment. But then again, if your girl is just good at faking it, it doesn't matter, anyway!
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